However, I feel like I am progressively covering ground on this journey for self-improvement as a mother, wife, woman, housekeeper, professional, Christian, etc and want to use the upcoming year to be intentional about improving myself and my family. I have decided to plan 12 Habits I want to create and 12 Habits I want to break in 2012. Each habit has been assigned to a month. During each month I will focus primarily on creating and breaking the given habits. The goal (based on the definition of "habit") is to have 12 things become a natural part of my routine that will bless us, and 12 things that were not beneficial to our family that I no longer do.
I made my list tonight. I have a few months that I need to still fill in some habits to break, but I figure as the year goes on, I am sure I will be able to reevaluate my life and fill in the blanks when I get there. I will also try to blog about my progress as I go!
Here is my list.... to keep me motivated and on track!
January
*Create - Get up before the girls to have special time with God.
*Break - Stop snoozing my alarm.
February
*Create - Plan and execute weekly individual time with each girl and my husband.
*Break - Stop saying "in a minute" or "I'm busy"
March
*Create - Finish 1-2 books in a month (Read everyday, individually and with the girls)
*Break -Don't leave the TV on throughout the day.
April
*Create - Go for daily walks with the family
*Break -Don't spend too much time on the phone/comp/facebook
May
*Create - Drink at least 20 oz of water every day
*Break - Don't rely on caffeine to get my thru the day
June
*Create - Plan meals
*Break -Don't let the girls "munch" thru the day
July
*Create - Go to bed no later than midnight
*Break -Don't turn on the TV as I am getting into bed
August
*Create - Blog at least 2-3 times a week
*Break - Don't be impatient with girls and David
September
*Create - Call family members at least a couple times a month
*Break -
October
*Create - Try a new food every week
*Break -
November
*Create - Intentionally be thankful for something every day
*Break - Don't complain
December
*Create - Intentionally take advantage of opportunities to do random acts of kindness often.
*Break -
"Hold yourself responsible for a higher standard than anyone else expects of you." - Henry Ward Beecher
This is a brilliant idea! The challenge is going through with it. I hope it is ok for me to borrow this? I hope I hope I am one of the family members that you call!!!!
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